When I was on vaca about 10 days ago, I once again was Holy Spirit blessed to spend a substantial portion of it w/ my darling.
Then God saw to it that a ho hum trip to the 48 hour video/dvd store around the corner from the cabin turned into really something special. ........ Shortly thereafter I found myself having the amazing pleasure of watching Fireproof with my darling beside me. She was the one who took notice of it in the store and she said she had heard it was good.
If it is truly Great then God is in it.
The pursuit that you wish to make towards your wayward spouse is best spent beginning or furthering a pursuit of God the Father. His Son, Christ, came into this world to show us the way up from our fall.