Originally Posted By: aliveandkicking


Eventually, we need some guidelines for in the house; he still acts like this is home...


My H does the same. It is oddly comforting and disruptive all at once. I think it will be hard to set that boundary, it already is. Eventually is the key word. Maybe this is why DBing takes so long to take effect, since we have to take the time to let the emotions EVENTUALLY stop getting in the way of what is actually best. (lighbulb for me!!)