wants a divorce but she may not be able to recover unless she can get past this.
She thought I would never do this but I did.
She had a vision of me that I would never do such a thing. I WOULDN'T that vision is mostly correct. I hate cheaters and I always have. But now I am one. I want her to know that this does not mean I would ever do it again nor does it diminish my commitment to our marriage. These were very extreme circumstances and I fell down HARD. We do not live together, in fact we are very very far apart geographically. Any advice on what to say or do? Please Please help me articulate an apology!