Thanks guys... I tend to agree with travel...that it is probably not a good idea to date...because somehow one thing leads to another and it gets complicated. The guy (we'll call him B) and I did talk about my sitch a little. B didn't seem to care, but asked his friend (our mutual friend) for my #. He was attractive and nice, we had a good time. So the interesting thing to me is that on one hand I am crying about H...and on the other I thought about B and it made me smile. I will definately not persue that situation. If I run into him again maybe I will re-evaluate. I think it is attention based, the little excitement it gives. Not to mention confidence. It is nice to know someone wants to persue me, as opposed to all of the denial. Also, it would be nice to have something to look forward to as far as good conversation that has little to do with H!!! That is what I liked about talking with B the other night. Learning about his life...which was SO 180 from mine!!! And not thinking about mine for awhile!
Flipping the switch, I REALLY felt that H was on the verge of telling me something. It was when he was hugging me today. But he is holding back. And it could be wishful thinking.
You are right AK, it is so early on. That is why I was surprised to find myself interested in B. I think it would just complicate my already ridiculously confusing life.
I think it is attention based, the little excitement it gives. Not to mention confidence. It is nice to know someone wants to persue me, as opposed to all of the denial. Also, it would be nice to have something to look forward to as far as good conversation that has little to do with H!!! That is what I liked about talking with B the other night. Learning about his life...which was SO 180 from mine!!! And not thinking about mine for awhile!
