I wrote a similar not to be sent note to H. (not sure if I should really be calling him that anymore but whatever) except instead of saying, sorry you chose bling, said,
sorry you need to chose to protect your own pride and ego over the repair of our marriage. Sorry that facing our loss, your feelings and our mistakes together is too uncomfortable for you...and that that discomfort is less acceptable to you than tossing aside our life together and all the very good things that we had...I didn't realize our marriage was no less disposable than a burned out toaster.
And then promptly filed it under, Periodic Ranting by bitter LBW, volume I.
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR