1. None of those new dates are good for deposition. She did give us other dates that were. We went ahead and filed to get W deposed on one of those dates. June 30. Won't happen.
2. The trial date of July 13 is 'impossible' for her to be ready for. She asked my attorney to file a joint motion for continuance. I instructed him not to. She can hang herself in front of the judge. She said she has a "vacation" planned. So I guess I should put my life on hold while she does that.
3. W is now wanting mediation! I told them to "get bent" although a little more diplomatically. Mediation would just weaken my position at this point. What am I going to negotiate? That she's 50% crazy instead of 100%?
4. None of those objective unbiased psychologists we recommended were apparently objective or unbiased enough so she wanted us to use a psychologist who specializes in a completely different field and who doesn't deal with BPD individuals. So... no thanks. Asked for a reason why the others weren't acceptable. Took her 30+ days to realize she didn't like the others and find one name. I cold-called a dozen and pulled 3 names in less than an hour when I chose those three.
5. Random threats about taking action for a restraining order for slander from when I sent out the mass email exposing her affair. Note to lawyer: in print it is libel, not slander. And the "truth" is an affirmative defense for a charge of libel.
FAIL
So anyway... I'm hoping things continue working out. Seems like a weak gasp from her side... otherwise no action from them.
"You can't reason someone out of a position they didn't reason themselves into."
