Divorce looming #14

[volleydog]

OMG keV WTF are you thinking...no to asking her.

[K4D]

Dang Stuck,

That almost sounded just like me. Thats terrible.

I took the kids for pizza tonite. They enjoyed that. Tomorrow D7 has a field trip. She is looking forward to that. They are in very good spirits tonite. I'm glad to see that. We might go swimming later. They wanted to right after we ate, but with D7's track record of throwing up, I think we will wait just a while for her food to digest.

My W used to say I was predictable. I guess I still am. Thats not good.

I guess I felt like if I could present that M seminar in the right manner, maybe she would consider it. But it could end up being just another nail in the coffin.

And as I said, med school is out. Guess I wasn't thinking to straight on that one. At least you all cleared me up on that one.

You have to admit though that if you read that article on that link I posted it, its really insightful for so many situations.

Self Delusion. I guess I am still in self delusion myself. But I remember the good and the bad. She just remembers the bad. And its like 25 said about her husband, they don't recall things accurately either specific events or things they said just like the article says. I have heard my W recall things wrong to and inflate stories, etc.

I used to love grilling out. That was a passion of mine. I loved the heck out of it. I used to find anything I could grill and make all kinds of sauces for basting. I'm in an apartment now though.

I got called for a BA position in Austin today. They asked if I was willing to relocate. I had to say no. I should have asked them if they were willing to relocate. lol.

I need to sew a button onto my shirt. I guess I need to figure out how to do that.

Today W told me I need to buy all new clothes because of the weight I had lost. I agreed.

Kevin

[K4D]

No CG, I was reading the web page and it said it is better to act sooner than later and went into a whole bunch of stuff. It said they could send me info on how to encourage the S to go and additional methods. I guess I gave it real serious thought today.

As far as med school, ya, I thought about it last night and this morning. But after reading everything everyone posted, obviously that is not obtainable.

I'm not messing with anyone. I am posting my real thoughts. My kids were seeing a C but the insurance ran out. But I am going to look at getting them back into it though I think.

I guess I have some hair brained ideas sometimes that maybe I don't think through all the way. Thats one of many complaints W had against me.

By the way, I would pay money to see that CG. I can imagine the judges and your H's expression. lol.

Kevin

[kara]

Kevin

Take a look at your language

"I think", "I guess", "I used to, "I should".

Tell me what this reveals to you.

Why does your W have to tell you to get new clothes? This is absolutely astounding. At the very least you should be making sure that you look well put together. Again she will think that you can't do anything without her!

Sewing on a button....it is easy. If all else fails look it up on ehow.

[K4D]

It says I am undecisive?

I haven't wanted to spend the money yet on clothes as I am trying to save emergency money should the worst happen for any reason. I just want to be prepared for anything to occur at any point.

I just wear a tighter belt. I guess my shirts look a little big on me to. I used to have this big belly that I had to buy larger shirts for. But I no longer have that belly.

I need to use the whitning strips for my teeth that I bought also.

I didn't eat lunch today. I pretty much eat only at dinner now. I guess that helps keep the weight off.

Kevin

[davidswife]

CG,

Let me know about your court date. I'd be happy to show up with some rice to throw, and a magnum of champagne to celebrate your joyous reconciliation.

After that, I'm going to apply to MIT for a spot in their aerospace engineering program - big $$$$$ in that (not much money in education, you know)!! Perhaps you'd like to apply for something??

Sorry to hijack--but I just had to get that out!

Stacy

[K4D]

DW, lol. That was good.

I took the kids swimming. We played a game in the pool. At a couple of points, D7 had to tell me to quit day dreaming. Gosh, what is wrong with me. I snapped out of it and we all had a good time. Then other kids showed up and they all played together.

Honestly, I only took them for pizza tonite because I didn't feel like putting the effort into cooking tonite.

Tomorrow is W's birthday. It will be the first one we haven't spent together. Hopefully it will be the only one. I think that is what really has me down today.

Oh, CG, our anniversary is August 2nd. But I don't think I will show up in a tux with a limo to take her out.

Kevin

[traveldane]

I guess I felt like if I could present that M seminar in the right manner, maybe she would consider it. But it could end up being just another nail in the coffin.

Definition of insanity: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Kevin, you have approached W. over and over, she has told you clearly that she is not interested right now. You've heard that from her own lips.

Time to do something different, in your life, for girls and for you. We make choices every day. What will you choose tomorrow ?

[K4D]

I'm going to church tomorrow night while W and kids and family celebrate her birthday.

Kevin

[traveldane]

Good. Hope you enjoy it.