Fire's burning out...just smoldering

[S.T. _I Made It!]

hey B, sorry I'm not on much, you can always hollar at me on the alt though!

you know whatever OW says, there life isn't as it seems. I mean really, she pays for everything, he wastes her money, and it's only gonna get worse. and STOP looking at those FB pages! not long ago me and my friend that stayed here got on FB and looked at our h's old girlfriends. I definitely did not search for the OW though, I knew that would be a bad bad idea. But when I did look at the old girlfriend, it really depressed me too. she had a boob job and supposedly modeled in some magazine. sooooo, anyways, it's not a good idea!!

oh, and about the baby thing...I share that because I do believe in it, but I also read a book about the no-cry it out method, and it wasn't about picking the baby up everytime they cried, but instead giving them your presence. so they are still in their crib or bed, but your touching them, or whatever. and there is the pick up put down method too, but I think that's for a younger baby. So, I definitely understand the point about keeping the baby out of your bed. I'm so sorry that H lets her cry like that. You just continually be that constant person that is always there for her so she has support and love from you. She can still have a great life because of you, even if H is a jerk.