Don't Let Them Eat Cake

[peacetoday]

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I dont really know
If you are DB and standing, you can go and make it a really pleasant weekend see how it goes,

If you choose not to go
maybe you could tell the kids the truth?? a simple version of truth-
when my xh dropped bomb and started to go out every weekend
and we never spent any time together as a family anymore
I had to tell kids something
my kids saw me trying to speak to x, listening to him, attempting to make the M work
they saw xh visit, leave, lie, spend a lot of money, not return calls ect..
they know
I told them daddy was in crises and trying to work things out in his life
he still loves them and this was Not about them or me
I loved them I would be here for them and we prayed for DAD to be ok
I felt it was the truth as I saw it..not sure if this is the right thing
this is somethging we really cant protect them from
they will know something is up
they adjust easily though especially when they see mom is still there and their lives are the same in other ways
house, friends, school ect
good luck
peace