Is my sitch WAS or MLC?

[peacetoday]

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I totally agree with snodderly
from my experience with XH and waht ive read here on boards, your H has the script down
they do believe the M is really over
I also think they believe there pain will be over once they leave
they are under the illusion that happiness can be achieved by changing wives, jobs, homes friends ect
happiness is an inside job
they think we are the cause of their distress and ofcourse the OW will bring them the happiness they desire
obviously htere is a problem with this kind of thinking and actions
but
they cant see that now
and wont see for some time to come until the newness of the R wears off and reality and pain set in
now they are numb
peace