Oh and @Sara? You've identified the major weakness in my mojo. That one -- that "just take her and do the deed" one? Struggling with it.
It depends on where you see the line. Is it a six foot fence? A two foot fence? A line in sand? If you can bring the line down to the ground, then you just reach your hand out and touch her. The rest just follows. But you can't reach through a high fence. Damn, man! Any other man talking to a woman as vulnerable as your wife was there would have had sex with her. And she would have welcomed it. But the tone of the letter says she is still vulnerable. Maybe it is better to wait, and do it at the new house.
