Hi S,

Just posted details. Everything went well. How was the zoo?

A comment about the experience at the wedding and your own wonderings... when I recall these exp with him, he reminds me that all his choices were about which beer to drink - when it came to making any decisions the answer would be whatever got him there first or faster. No other thinking entered the picture.

Point is... none of his behavior makes sense in our terms. Trying to sort it out isn't worth any effort beyond - he has a problem. The problem he has with you is that you get in the way of his drinking. Make sense?


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11