Wish I could read her mind (9) >>>>

[DownNotOut...yet]

Hey Tim, I wasn't saying you pussed out. I was saying I pussed out that and I felt it was possible to overDB and become to much of a pleaser. I dunno if you did or did not. I know it was one of my mistakes and led to a year of limbo. Wanted to help you avoid the same. Just something to consider. It was a food for thought post.

I do think sometimes when they get the WAW/afffair mindset, there is little you can do to please THEM, you have to please YOURSELF and hope for the best. If you know you have done the work, and you feel good about the husband you have become, then the rest is in the higher power of your choice.