FIB, I do try not to speak badly of others (except my exH); but, your wife just amazes me! I cannot put into words how angry her behavior makes me!
As the others have stated, please do whatever it takes to protect yourself and your children. Your wife will stop at nothing to cause you as much harm as she possibly can.
And, I would definitely push my lawyer to move things along as quickly as possible. I know every state has different laws; but, this is just ridiculous.
