You know, although I believe in exposure somewhat I tend to agree with what others have said here. Exposure did NOT work with me- it only made me more prideful and determined to move on. I was not feeling very guilty even though I was having an A because my H told everyone. He also added details to the sitch- and changed the one OM to five. I even got accused of having a lesbian affair (one of my best friends is a gay female).
