i have never posted to u, i dont think, but i have followed along as best as i could.
i feel so bad, because i know how much u are hurting, i know how much u want your wife back.
i know.
i know how hard it is to listen to the advice u receive, because it is against everything u are feeling.
i think the marriage seminar sounds great and i think its great u are trying to do everything u can.
but if u ask her right now, she will say no, u will feel worse, and everyone will tell u "i told u so"...
the best thing u can do is pull back for now. i know its hard, believe me. but try. really try.
and maybe one day u can suggest the seminar.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09