i have never posted to u, i dont think, but i have followed along as best as i could.

i feel so bad, because i know how much u are hurting, i know how much u want your wife back.

i know.

i know how hard it is to listen to the advice u receive, because it is against everything u are feeling.

i think the marriage seminar sounds great and i think its great u are trying to do everything u can.

but if u ask her right now, she will say no, u will feel worse, and everyone will tell u "i told u so"...

the best thing u can do is pull back for now. i know its hard, believe me. but try. really try.

and maybe one day u can suggest the seminar.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09