Yeah, my thought is that if you bring this up to your W, you're just driving another nail into the coffin.

She doesn't want to be even in your presence much less go to a M seminar with you.

If you say you've read everything people have posted to you why do you keep asking about stuff like this?

You're still looking for the fast way out. You didn't finish HS, you didn't work on your M when your W was begging you to, you don't even listen to anyone on here.

Irregardless of what we post here, I'm 100% sure you're going to ask her any way, so I'm going to make this prediction: After you ask your W, you're going to come here and post this.. "well I asked my W and she told me flat out 'no' that she had moved on and that I should too. Dang, well I knew that'd be her answer but I figured I'd give it a shot. It shows how far she's gone over the deep end..."

And that's the 'nice' version of it. I'm willing to take bets with anyone now on this.

Truthfully I think your W is going to go ballistic on you and then you're going to subject your kids to another day of watching the two of you fight. I think I still post here because I worry about them more than the two of you. How about concentrating on them for a change. Not just playing with them, but really being there and supporting them.

I leave it up to the others to give more 2x4s.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER