I just found out my brothers' best man -whom I've known for 20 years- at age 43 has kindey cancer. He cheated on his wife 2 years ago, EA, he is a professor at the Uni and got involved with a student that used him to pass all her classes- and his wife found out just as the student was pulling away (from what she could read at emails). His wife is helping him thru this, she has been in despair ever since she found out and just as they were calming down... dang!!!! Wake up call!!! Karma? Who knows?
Sorry about your friends Lisa. Things like that make me feel stupid. I wonder why. xxx K