It is very frustrating. He has been making such a great effort especially over the last several months and I have told him so. He is very unhappy with his job situation and has been for years and I think that is a huge part of the problem. Since the job market is tight, he can't find anything new. Having to work two jobs puts a lot of pressure on him. I get that, but my life isn't a cakewalk.

It is nice to know there are others dealing with this, although the fact that there are others stinks.


Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother