(((Mishka))) I have lined up a few potentials for moving. In fact now I have too many offers
(((MsM))) Thank you, your post really helped me clarify what I should be thinking. It really made me think!
Well, I took the weekend off and finished packing with my Mum and then on Sunday it was my niece's christening which was really lovely. Plus I got to hang out with my brothers mates who have known me since I was born and are the funniest guys and treat me like a proper little sister. I love it!
Yesterday I went for a walk and did some fresh thinking and this was the email I wrote back to h.
Hiya,
I hope you had a good time in (the races) at the weekend, the weather was lovely! I saw that article about (my work), looks like the backlash is about to start again and the Faculty are woefully inept as usual *crying into my desk with frustration*! Maybe they'll come up with a 'sort-of plan' again...
Next weekend is fine if you want to come up, although I am probably out on Saturday. Thanks for your offer of help, if you have time that'd be great. I have been very busy over the past couple of weeks packing and sorting. I have put your stuff together but it is not packed. I will leave it to you to decide how to deal with it. It is all in and by the pink bedroom cupboard. There are also the tools in the boiler cupboard and in the cupboard by the front door which were too heavy for me to shift. Oh, and the bike in the shed.
If you want to chat over anything let me know.
Hope you have a good week and it isn't as hectic as the past two weeks. If you still want to lunch let me know, otherwise I'll probably see you some time at the weekend.
J
My goals in this were - to chill out and not take it personally - to be laid back - no pressure - to have my own life and give him space here over the weekend. - to get him to help me with some of my stuff. I reckon that at the very least we can drive all the stuff I have sorted up to my sisters, that would be really helpful.
The exchange of contracts on the house has been delayed by at least another weekend, something to do with the buyers buyers. H just sent me a text asking me to lunch on Friday even though we will see each other at the weekend so I guess that is a result. The big result is that there is 5 days notice *picks myself up off the floor* The positive thing is that I detached so much over the weekend that I really am not bothered where as last week I think I would have been in a state about it!
The positive thing is that I detached so much over the weekend that I really am not bothered where as last week I think I would have been in a state about it! 