AJ,

All sounds very familiar to me! My W tells me the same things: a lot of stuff to deal with, overwhelmed with work, no time for anything, talking to the MC really felt good. After the last MC session, she tells me that she really liked the MC and that she will set up the next appointment. But she hasn't yet. She keeps acknowledging that she needs and wants help, but doesn't take action to do something about it! It's been a while, so I asked her last Sunday if she had set something up because the MC had emailed me about an invoice and said we could pay next time we come in. Then she says: "I keep forgetting everything! I'll write it on my hand right now!" Then she put a reminder in her phone while I was there. We'll see...

Looks like your W actually is doing something! So I see that as a good thing! She seems to take action to better herself, to work on herself. I think the best thing to do is to let her do her thing...


Me:37/W:38
T11/M8
S12 S4 S4
Bomb 10/07
Sep 7/08-

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