he was back, i think

[mdoodles]

by email? interesting....dont u have to do this through a lawyer?

dont make it too easy for him and make sure u protect yourself.

a lawyer will tell u what to do, and he can sign a lease if he wants AFTER your support is put into place, child and spousal.

the remaining money he can do what he wants with, as long as u are covered, u wont care.

as for me, i am doing ok, nothing too new to report.

things between h and i are ok.

i cant ever figure him out, but it is clear he isnt so sold on leaving me...

now its up to me to decide if im done (which i never am) or if im willing to wait it out.

i think im just going to go about my business like i said, make sure fiancially things are being paid, stay friendly but slightly removed and see what happens.

im not interested in proceeding legally.

its terrible i know, but i do feel myself wrapped in the game of winning, and i need to stop that way of thinking. i realize that.