Since I am doing the Limbo, I do not know what to advise you. I had to get comfortable enough in me to allow DH over here all the time and I still struggle with it. But on the flipside, as you said--he gets to see you in your wonderfulness, too. IF you can act as if--allow him to come over, if you cannot tell him it is not a good thing for him to be there all the time. It depends on what you are currently comfortable with.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7