He thinks he can bully everyone to his way of thinking and doing things. Sad really. Was he like this even in the beginning? If so maybe you were thinking you could change him?
Maybe a tiny tiny bit, but not noticeable like now. We were both college students when we dated/first married and he had jobs like selling snow cones and stocking at a grocery store. I think law school changed him a bit, and he's been supervising (over a hundred other Ls) the last 5 or 6 years and I think that really changed him. I talked to a bff last week who's been friends with me for something like 30 years and friends with H as well, and she said he was a nice guy back then so he has changed I think. I wouldn't call him that anymore. I've gotta go volunteer at theatre camp (making costumes today). Karen
