I agree with PDT that this is a spiritual battle - our enemy is trying to destroy yet another marriage. I have my story elsewhere in this forum, but one of the things I failed to mention there is that part of the reason I think my H doesn't want me back is because I got saved about a year after we stopped living together, and he is not only a non-Christian but he hates all things Christian and pretty much all things from ANY established religion. He is really into the occult and paranormal stuff and so is his mother and also the woman I have been told he is dating although he has denied it. The fact that I am going to church every week and getting involved in church activities really bothers him. I've been surprised that he has allowed me to involve our son in it, I honestly expected he would sue for custody over my raising our son in a Christian environment. But apparently he'd rather do that than take on any responsibility as a parent and I guess I shouldn't complain since I don't want my child raised in a household controlled by the enemy. But God can change the heart of any man (or woman). I would say continue to pray for your wife and for your marriage and don't agree to a divorce unless you feel that God has released YOU from the marriage. As well as the DB book, I would highly recommend that you read Love Must Be Tough by Dr. Dobson - it's a great book, especially for someone who admits they have spent too much time trying to save their marriage by giving in to their spouse's improper behavior.
