In addition to "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and Michele's "Divorce Remedy," I'd strongly suggest "Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs," by Eggerichs. It's exceptional.
Puppy
I love this book! I struggle with some of it while DH's behavior is so off, but I try everyday to implement the things I learned there. Two other good one are Captivating-Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul and Wild at Heart. The authors' last name is Eldridge--husband and wife. They are really good for understanding who God wants us to be as a man and a woman, not just as man and wife.
Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~ SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7