Puppy,

Her spending is on clothing mainly, though two new leather topped kitchen stools plus a new wall cabinet and wall lights have also been purchased.

I took the liberty of destroying my credit cards and told her to take me off the account as I have my own card for me and me alone.

Any purchases she makes are from her account, the question is I do not know where all this money is coming from as she is not that well paid.

I have a hunch that she is so unhappy because things are not going her way, she is impulse buying to get a temporary 'happy fix'.

Just a thought.


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years