So, I decided to have fun with Aussie man and when he left, he left...it was actually a lot of pressure off, no expectations of anything...and that kinda helped me put things in perspective...
SO, I go to this party this weekend...a family party...but other friends of family were there, etc...and there is this one guy, a bachelor...and my aunt said I should go up and chat him up...and I was like: sure, why not? He seems like a nice person...blah, blah, blah...so I do...and at the end of the conversation, I say, well, it was really nice talking with you and he asked me for my phone number!
ANd here I was...thinking...no more dating...I am just gonna be me and not worry about any of that stuff...I don't wanna 'date' anymore...I need a break...and I meet this fabulous cool guy...he is 10 years older, has a Ph.D. in Engineering...I love brainiac men! And he seems emotionally stable...and he is the same religion as I am and actually attends church! Excellent...so, we'll see...only trouble is, he lives in my hometown which is 80 miles from me...so I guess we'll see...he is good looking and very physically fit...I like that...
So maybe I am not the relationship pariah I thought I was...I'll keep you posted...
Hugs! Valentine
Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day
"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller
