Hmm...Setting a boundary. Setting the stage for the two of you to talk like adults. Hmm... Seems like you are making progress to me
AJ- I've suggested to H so many times that we handle these matters between us, even before the sep. You know the whole "good cop, bad cop" routine. I think I am going to have to manage it myself. He doesn't get it. Even when touchy things come up with the kids around, I will say "let's not do this in front of them" and he doesn't listen...I have to come up with my own way of managing communication. Like I said, if S9 calls me, I will just say that daddy and I will discuss it (of course H will do this in front of them so they know if I am the impasse to them having their fun)...this has gone on for a long time.
