The good news is "the plumbing" has been feeling better over the past two weeks. Still a bit off, but tolerable.

W has been out of state for work for 2.5 weeks and is coming home at the end of this week. I went to visit her the first weekend and we had a great time. Even did a Sunday morning quickie, despite her being at the end of her period (she never normally will do anything, unless "the monthly bill has been fully paid"). We have been texting a lot and in a friendly way. I sent her a nice card, which she will hopefully get before she heads home (as of yesterday she hadn't after a full week) and I have texted her pictures of the kids and other things. Have been doing really great as Mr. Mom, even though it has cut into work and couldn't keep doing it. But, overall it has gone well.

Here is my challenge. All the banter has been friendly and non-sexual. I would like to relight the fire in a way that let's her know I have expectations after she gets back. I was thinking of sending her a text suggesting we text each other what sexual things we want to do when she returns and going first. What do you think? Any other ideas?

You guys were great last time I asked and really helped.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"