Thanks for the response Tia. My S called this morning to say H was sitting in his car on the phone. Hard to hear about each time H is talking to OW. It's like he is ready to throw S and I to the curb.
I am getting the book today, whether it comes from the library or I have to buy it. I need reinforcement that I am not alone, that this is not abnormal and I am not crazy for trying to stay with a man who doesn't want me right now.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10