Well today at d tball game started not good a asked for garage door opener said hers broke...I just say sure the a few min later make a joke that at least now I don't have to come by and let the dog out or anything...she says no I'll make u a key or asks if she can just buy a generic remote and program it...so who knows.
Later she asks if I know anyone who is doing big race in town next year so she can have some people to go with or train with...I say I am doing it sort of a BIG truth stretch but I was going to do it...she was pretty surprised I said I was nothing about training together but we did talk about our training so far...
Pretty sure but not positive the garage door opener was a clue on what's to come...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Either way just think of the old saying..."hope for the best, but prepare for the worst".
Who knows what is ahead. Just keep being you.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Well information is always good...I called the court just to see what the next step is and there really is none, meaning unless we agree on something we have a court date Nov. 18. So at least I don't have to think about being served more papers. I'm guessing the papers from her L were his idea of a fair settlement to help her.
SO2 I had a post on your thread that I thought I posted that doesn't seem to be there from last night...I'm going to check my iphone to see if I may not have actually hit post.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Just that she took the opener back because she no longer wants me to have access to the house whenever I want...Course I've never been there when she didn't know. One step closer to totally separate lives.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
So she did file something. Well, I guess we knew it was coming and remember its only a stupid piece of paper.
Just protect yourself and your kids. I am sure you will. You never know what can happen in a few months.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
No nothing new and thinking about it it would really make no sense to. We have a date already there really wouldn't be anything left unless I guess she decides she wants to just go through her L and not try anything else...Either way it's on her unless the deadline I set comes up before hand.
So I guess if I want my M saved I have five months...
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
Well my H sent me, via email a divorce/separation agreement that doesn't include child support. I called him to remind him I'm not ending my marriage electonically and reminded him, I am moving, I'm leaving this town. He got worked up and said he didn't want to talk to me anymore. I said OK. So much of the last 7 months have been completely his say and the way he wanted them. So now, I feel better having made some decisions for me. I don't really want to take our son away from him, but a very good loved one made a good point: If you are neurotic and crazy, how much good are you going to be to your son? I plan to leave for about a year to 18 months, go home. Heal. Get my head on straight and my heart back in position for my new life without h. So I feel for you Volleydog. It sucks.
Don't know what to say... do I hear you saying," I have five months to make it work, or I have five months to see if she changes her mind."
Sorry things look not so encouraging. Do you think you could make a change in the sitch if you wanted to? I feel like I am a lone wolf crying in the wilderness and I may be - I am old fashioned sometimes.
At this point I'm not sure what else I could. I think she has to want to work on the m and everytime we talk about the r she makes clear she wants a d. I would love nothing more to "fix" my m but she has to want to also, at least a little.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."
