On it went in circles. Me being calm tho everything is my fault. he even admitted at one point that he really feels like hurting me. But I knew that already.
Fallgirl, this statement scares me. Do you feel safe staying at home with H? Does he have a history of violence?
It sounds like you're doing awesome with DBing. You did everything right with that conversation. And it's clear that the more calm and reasonable that you are, the more unsettled and confused he is becoming!!
Don't let him take the kids! They need to stay in their home; S would be hard enough for them alone, much less having to move. Plus this is H's issue, and he would be the one initiating leaving, not you. Therefore you stay in the house with the kids.
Stay strong, sounds like you're doing well with DB'ing!
Me 39 H 42 M 11, T 12 S 10,6 D 3 EA 2007 separated in same home since 3/10/09
