GH31 - Dilemma with my pregnant wife

[GH31]

Hi again Sara,

It's really very sobering to me to think of my wife as insane.

Here are some of the bizarre things my wife has done:

* W said "We're destined to be together GH31, that's what I feel deep in my gut" a day or two after she took herself and her belongings out of the apartment and moved in with OM.

* Putting pictures of her two nephews in the apartment a few days after leaving as she knows I am fond of them, and "to give you hope GH31".

* Blaming me for not chasing her hard enough to "win her back" - "at least OM begged for me to go back when I left him".

* W calls me from OM's saying she "misses me" and that she "needs to get back to reality".

* W said "It would be great if you could merge you and OM together".

* W kissed me passionately when we were playing pool, this whilst she was living with OM so she could "see how she felt about things".

* W went on a trip for a couple of days to Darwin when OM flew to Australia so she could "she how she felt about things".

* W routinely says things to me like "I always want you to be around GH31", "we have our own unique way about us GH31, which cannot be replaced", "I love your company GH31"

* OM (apparently) has an erectile dysfunction problem which I learned about recently and whenever W has wanted sex, which is nearly always passionate, she has said "come and do what you're good at GH31". On a few occasions I have felt like a mechanical pneumatic drill or in her words, that I am providing her with a "service".

* Whilst separated and W lived at OM's we had sex and she told me how I "know how to satisfy her". Ordinarily I would be thrilled to hear this from a woman but it makes my blood run cold to think of it now.

* Repeatedly whilst living with OM, W tells me she "doesn't believe in divorce".

* W deleted numbers and SMSs from a female work colleague to me, sent during the time we were apart. This woman is pretty but I have never been romantically interested in her. W said it was "inappropriate for her to be communicating with a married man" and that she should "butt out and stop hanging around like a bad smell". Unbelievable hypocrisy - but I had no issue with it out of respect for her feelings.

* W tells me that my penis "has a reserved tag on it", i.e. for her.

There are many more horrible things to add but I don't want to think of them now. I have made mistakes also and will summarize those on a later thread.