As I've gone through the reconciliation process myself and watched many others attempt it, I can, with certainty, say this.... there are a few obstacles that cannot be overcome, and insanity is high on that list. It is not your failure. It is an impossibility. I hope that she will find a way to care for a child. But her complete narcissism and self-centeredness do not lead me to believe that even her own child could distract her from herself.
