What's going on with you? Are you...feeling alright? I Just visited the site you wanted us to see. It refers to the nature of "Sinning" and delusions and addictions, etc. The parts about rationalization, (how you do it every time you repeat the same mistakes again and again) projection (seeing your flaws in her), altered memory,("I was never happy until I met her... she completed me, and I got complacent...") repression, (No discussion of your mother or her recent death) self delusion, ("we were happy" "How can I get my w back FAST"? "This dismissal is a sign so I will invite her to dinner tonight") addiction (um, aren't you the "functioning alcoholic" who admits he "drank too much"??) so....I'm really really curious...
did you go to the site b/c you learned about yourself there? (In which case I'm very impressed)...but you said something about you wanting her to "snap out of it' and I realized in horror, you are talking about HER, and NOT YOU! . That's incredible. And yes, it is delusional of you. Unbelievable with your history...
As for wishing someone would "SNAP OUT OF IT", Kevin, that's me wishing it for you. You're kind of scaring me now. As for the mil and the rest of your w's family and why you insist on inserting yourself into the problems.. As someone else said, go deal with your own family. Be a good son and a good brother before you cast stones at your w's family. Your family was evidently not involved in your childrens' lives, so I don't know what that means but really, don't throw stones when you may live in a glass house. Be there for your kids, show up for THEM...go to your c. GAL, DB 101 and (Sigh) re-read the posts we all write to you b/c I'm tired of doing this now...man, that site really did it for me. You have officially freaked me out with the biggest gap in self awareness...Zero insight...
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