Coach, I don't know how to do the quote/excerpt thingy, yet,so re: your "How much do you try to read into every word and action your wife makes?", I really don't anymore. I observe, but I don't try to divine anymore. Is this good? Also, I don't know exactly when I stopped doing it for the marriage/her and started to do it for me but a subtle and powerful shift sure accompanied it.
Thanks.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
