When she told me that she was going to file, I said to her that is not what I wanted. I told her that I had realized the mistakes that we had made and that I hoped that we could work through them but she says this is what she wants.
I am starting to accept that. Most of the time when we are home, she stays in the living room. What I find odd is that some nights she chooses to sleep the bed and other nights she chooses to sleep on the couch. A little confusing to me. There is no intimacy or anything close to it when she stays in the bed but some nights it seems like she will sleep closer to me.
She has been going to OM house on her off nights from work. I don't say anything to her about it.
I am not sure if I should just let go or keep on trying to save the marriage. Stepson has also put distance between us. Wife did say that stepson has met OM.
Open to suggestions and as always very thankful for all the support!!!
