I'm not sure if I can help my focus is IT but I know a lot people so I'm here...You are in my prayers I know it's a tough time but you CAN and WILL get through this and be better for it...read the quotes in my sig.

Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."