Let her put her make up on if it makes her feel more comfortable but as someone else here said, show her that YOU find her attractive just as she is wthout makeup.
Also, if she starts sharing more of her feelings, dreams, fantasies (like what countries she'd visit if she were a gazillionaire, or if she could fly or whatever, NOT the other kinds of fantasies...) she'll be less likely to have an EA b/c you're so darn approachable...Oh, but IF she did share a sexual fantasy with you, which I know would shock you, LISTEN to it w/o judgment.
That book I recommended to you, had a really humbling effect on me. We all need lessons on forgiveness. IT is so hard. Wish it had been taught in the schools b/c I did not see it at home growing up. More details coming later...
hang in there, J-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016