she thinks that since she told me she won't promise fidelity during our separation that she is exempt from responsibility for that action of hers, but since I was telling her I wanted her all along that I am a cheater and she is not.
Its magical thinking and helps her justify what she has done and gives her the ability to make you the bad guy.
I agree with Vickyd...take responsibility for what you have done, but you can't shoulder the responsibility for everything...its not fair.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
