Blindsided, you my friend are the flipside of this coin. You are a good mother and saddled with a man who takes no responsibility for the care and welfare of his child other than to make himself appear to be a Dad. I'm so sorry that it has to be that way for you and it will come back to haunt him in the end. You do the things you do for K because she is your baby and not a paycheck...it certainly does not seem to be the case with the Troll. Its ALL about HER and the baby is a bargaining chip that she uses when it suits her.
Karen and Kat...IMHO the Troll should not have custody of this child and probably only visitation. Who knows how it will end up. I don't know if she is a bad mother or not, but from what I've seen she is a very spoiled, self-centered person and she is only a "mommy" when the situation suits her whims. Whatever...she will agree to something or not, there is nothing I can really do about it but watch it play out. Thanks guys. The wings are recharging...just so ya know.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option