Sug - she ruins it for the rest of us. My H left me with ALL our debt, no CS, no formula, diapers, clothes, wipes, no medical insurance (I pay $180/month for her alone), nothing. And, when I ask...he tells me has bills to pay so he can take care of his daughter....give me a break. Maybe she would be willing to draw up papers stating that he will continue to pay the DC and supplies, but not give her any cash. If she doesn't go for it and he does have to go to court, maybe he should mention her gambling addiction and they can draw it up somehow. It's really sad to see people act like that. Since K was born, I haven't bought a thing for myself. Every bit of money I get goes to food, diapers and clothing and toys for her. For my birthday, I told everyone to get me NOTHING, just help me pay for the food at K's party and buy her a present instead. If I could get buy on my money alone, I would take H's CS and put it into a money market or invest it for her future and not touch a bit of it. I have no problem sacrificing for my child.


M 5yrs
1st baby-girl born 6/18/08
Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego
H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07
D Final 07/10
OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her
Me, now - happier than I ever was with him