Fire's burning out...just smoldering

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HW -soooo good to hear from you. I hope you're doing well. I think of you often. I referred someone (who actually has money to hire her) to Ann. Thank you again for that help.

Sug - you and HW are so right. The more I think about it the more I see it. My Mom also pointed out that OW had two kids with a man who would not marry her probably in an attempt to get him to, then has a baby with a Married man who just had a baby with his WIFE, she pays for him to live off of her. All he has to do is some dishes, watch the kid while she's at work, and pretend that he loves her. Mom says she's probably more afraid to NEVER be married than to be married and get a divorce. Therefore, it doesn't really matter who "the guy" is...as long as she reaches her goal. And, now, my H is probably what she thinks is her last chance considering she is in her 30's and now has 3 kids out of wedlock. I love my Mom. She always brings me back down to earth and out of fantasy land.

H on the other hand HAS created a HUGE hole...he ruined his marriage, left his daughter, hurt his parents and his brother, hurt all of my family, promised OW things he probably never meant to do, got her pregnant, got his a$$ stuck and trapped more than he ever was with me.....WAY MORE. So, of course, he has to prove to the world that this IS what he wants otherwise, what? He's a big loser, jerk-off, cheater, liar, phoney, fake, sociopath. Did I miss anything?