Admit your wrong but don't take all the blame. IMHO
Thank You, I am trying not to. Blame is a problem. When I told her how I felt and why it happened, she thought I was blaming her. I was merely trying to lay out the emotions as they are. she thinks that since she told me she won't promise fidelity during our separation that she is exempt from responsibility for that action of hers, but since I was telling her I wanted her all along that I am a cheater and she is not.
I think her's is the most immature response I have ever heard in my life. I'm not mad at her for being hurt though, I am upset that she can hold such a double standard and still expect to be taken seriously.
Is it a positive thing that she is texting me at my request to let me know that she is okay at nite before she goes to bed?
