You seem to be offended by the fact that I posted my opinion in response to your post to someone else (emphasis yours). Isn't that part of the purpose of this forum, to comment, advise, agree and disagree not only with the thread's author, but with each other? And I did so respectfully, and briefly.
You seem to be reading waaaayyy too much into one man's stating of an opposing point of view.
For the record, I was referring to the general passive approach of others when I called it "The Little Bo-Peep" approach. I coined that phrase a year or so ago, long before you and I ever posted to each other, and it wasn't meant to disparage you.
I am glad to see that you agree with exposure to OM/OW's spouse. I do think they have a right to know, so that they can then do with the information as they best see fit in their own family.
