I hear what you're saying about the judging on my part. I've been working on that and now it's up to here to whether or not she feels like she's being judged. In that respect, sometimes I feel that she's so afraid of facing it that she'd rather leave than have the guilt hanging over her head.
When she had gotten defensive in the past about the A and it changes to she never loved me, etc. Do you think it's a protective mechanism for her?
I'm trying to make things as trusting between the two of us so that she'd be willing to share a little more "personal" things with me. It's going to be awhile though.
Thanks for the encouragement.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
