Let me ask you this, why is it necessary to hit anyone over the head with what you believe? Why not state your case and leave it at that? Is it that important that everyone agrees with your point of view? Personally, you've given lots of advice that I flat out don't agree with, but I would never think to use bold print to get across to someone.
All we can do is to lend our support and give our take. Just because you believe a certain way doesn't make it right for everyone.
