Don't go all pseudo-adventurous to try to attract your wife if that isn't you. The ends don't necessarily justify the means. You like your life and feel it works for you. So don't be someone you are not or you'll have to be that same someone you're not to keep her. You have to admit that hanging out with those girls really helped with the detactment, didn't it? If so, remember how it felt and was. Keep in mind that you do have other options (even if she's your first one...which may be a combination of rose-colored glassesitis and wanting-what-you-can't have-itis). It will help with the proper attitude if you do talk.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
