I absolutely agree with what you wrote, and I took it as it was meant. I also don't like this bold print and colored wording to emphasize a point. I guess it turns me off because I see it as bullying.
The way I do see it is if someone is going the route of having an affair, and all of the other acting out that goes with it, keeping silent and taking their crap changes nothing. They have already made up their minds. Why should we allow someone to keep disprespecting us and the life that we once had? Because I gotta tell you, they do lose respect for someone who has so little respect for themselves!
